Sunday, July 22, 2012

Not sure what I'm getting myself into!!:/

So, started this blog awhile back to track my crafting, and life,endeavors...guess I should work on that, eh?! (did I mention that I am still living in Northern MN?)
We are in transition to our new life in coastal, beautiful, sometimes sweltering South Carolina. I.cannot.wait. Hubs is (and has been since December) already residing and working there. I, on the other hand, am in limbo. I didn't even like that game in elementary school gym class, or at the roller rink when I was younger, so you can imagine my uncontrollable JOY dealing with it now! :) I'm ready to reside in one state again (other than the states of wacky/ crazy, which I will ALWAYS be fond of!). I'm ready to have a regular job. I'm tired of people thinking (and commenting out loud, bless their hearts) about how lucky I am to be on "vacation" and not have to work. To those comments I supply the following responses:
1. It's hardly a vacation. While dealing with all things real estate in MN, selling excess items before we move, coordinating efforts to make sure all is well everywhere, while worrying about finances, the house that STILL hasn't sold, renting a place in SC, worrying about how long we will even BE in SC, etc...I am a stressed out mess. Sure, under the concealer of a huge margarita, home-brewed beer, or super-classy box of wine I seem calm. Ha! Hardly. I'm wound tight anyway, and I like order and routine. #thisisfreakingdrivingmecrazyjustsoyouknowandstopcallingitadamnvacation
2. As far as the "so lucky you don't have to work or worry about money" comment...I should kick your teeth in, seriously. Am I waltzing around like one of the Real Housewives of Orange freaking County?! No. I drive a Toyota,, not a Mercedes, thanks. And I've even looked into downsizing that, or getting a hybrid. My clothes? Hardly from Rodeo Drive, sweetie. More like TJ Maxx, Target, or things I have acquired through the years and have taken care of. And not worrying about money?! Again, I am a tightly-wound girl. I have student loans to pay, EVERY SINGLE MONTH. Other bills as well. And for the not working, do you even know me? Probably not if you can remotely make a comment like that with a straight face. I do 2 direct selling businesses, and "craft for money" (hey, it's legal!;). Just because I'm not currently punching a clock doesn't mean that I'm not making money. I've always enjoyed working and (more than likely) always will. But thanks for commenting on my fabulous life (insert sarcastic eye roll here).

Ok, ok...off my soapbox!
I just returned to MN for a few weeks after being gone for about a month and a half. I first made the drive to SC (25 hour drive, just in case you were wondering) with the dog, Clue, and the cat that came with our house when we moved here to MN, Murphy. Murphy had never been in the car longer than to be taken to the vet and to be taken home from the vet. Poor little buggar! He made it to beautiful Pawleys Island, SC and has adjusted well. Although he isn't allowed outside at all there like he was in MN (mainly to chase bugs until a noise scared him and he ran back to the door to be let in).
The second part of my journey entailed heading to Indiana for an overnight at my BFF's new home and then a road trip to the U.P. of Michigan with my mom for a few days to see family. Then...back to Indiana (my home state and home town!) to spend a few weeks with my BFF who had surgery in early June and was off in medical leave. I promised I wouldn't make her laugh her guts out (literally) if I could stay with her. They also have a dog similar sized to my Clue, and it turned out they loved each other!
I left Indiana last Tuesday, and Clue was sad...see attached picture. That is Clue looking for Kara as we were leaving, sad face.
Upon coming back to MN, I was hardly excited. First, the drive. Worlds most boring drive, ever. People of Wisconsin, please put something interesting or remotely interesting on this drive, will ya? Thanks. Walking into our house in MN was disappointing. I expected to be a little excited, like I was actually returning home. Didn't happen. It's just not home anymore . Home is where ever we are together. And it's not MN anymore! Ha!
So, I have decided that I will be returning to SC, on a more permanent basis. Can I get an amen?! (thanks for all of those who are playing along). I am lucky enough to have a wonderful friend who has watched the house for us, making sure it is show-ready for any interested parties. She has agreed to continue watching the house for us! So thankful and grateful!!

I didn't realize this post would turn into some sort of epic novel! If you've made it this far, you deserve some sort of medal, I swear. But I suppose it means you actually care...or are horribly bored.
God bless ya, either way.

I promise you crafts in the next post! :)

Xoxo,
B

4 comments:

  1. Dude, I am a total homebody, and I like to feel settled, so I get it. I hope your house sells soon! P.S.- You should do a post about that giant woven basket thing. That was awesome.

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  2. Oh Brandie, I heart you! I'm sorry things have been so crazy for you...I hope you are able to move "home" with your husband very very soon....and that your house will be sold too ;) Looking forward to crafty blog posts!

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  3. Thanks for the post!! I think I will give this blogging thing a real try. I can't wait to be settled! I am a planner, and I like to have all of my "stuff" a certain way. I am all discombulated with this back and forth road tripping B.S!!:/

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  4. Oh yay rah!! Two responses already!!:)
    Hey Miranda, which basket is it? The fabric bowl looking one?? I have crafted so much here lately, that my head is spinning!!;)

    And K, thank you!!! I promise the next blog will be more wine-laden and sunshine and roses...and, of course, all things crafty!!;)

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